Support for the supporters

Often, those diagnosed with laryngeal cancer are overwhelmed by the diagnosis and all the information given. At this stage, they will be in need of your reassurance and support.

Being physically and emotionally present for your loved one and trying to keep a positive attitude throughout their cancer journey is vitally important. Reassuring them that you will be there every step of the way is critical.

After the surgery, your loved one will be considered a neck breather as they will no longer breathe through their mouth and nose. They will only breathe through a small opening at the base of their neck called a stoma. Typically, they will not have to learn how to breathe again, as the lungs still know what to do. The air is redirected in and out of the stoma instead of the mouth and nose. Therefore, it is critical that you understand how they will breathe after surgery.

Emotional support

It is likely your loved one will be overwhelmed after receiving a laryngeal cancer diagnosis and it is important that you provide strong emotional support in the days ahead.

You want to make sure you are fully informed about what to expect throughout this journey. By knowing what lies ahead, you can help your loved one feel less anxiety and stress.

Before surgery, it is important to be well prepared so that your significant other feels calmer. After surgery, it may take some practice understanding your new loved one’s new way of speaking. It’s important not to get frustrated if you don’t understand your loved one at first.

Practical support

As well as being a shoulder to lean on, you can offer practical support to your loved one in several ways.

You can be a tremendous help to your loved one if you attend all appointments to act as a second “ear”. Take notes about what is said and keep it in a notebook. That way you can easily refer to those notes.

Your loved one should have a medical alert bracelet with “total neck breather” engraved on it along with any other important medical information like allergies, diabetes, etc. Prior to coming home from the hospital, it is also important to notify your local emergency medical service that your loved one is a neck breather and may have trouble communicating at times.